Waiting is necessary when it’s for the right thing.
Truth be told, I want to be with an amazing guy one day. I want to have a love that is strong and real. I want to be with a man who wants nothing more than to be with me, take care of me, and will give his all for me. I want a man who reflects God’s love toward me. I want a man who loves others and will have a heart for people like I do.
I want to love that man. I want to honor him, speak encouraging words to him, and have his back. I want to laugh with him, cry with him, and enjoy the little things with him. I want to be real with him, have his trust, and give my trust also. I want to do my part in being the woman he needs, be his co-pilot in life, and love him as God intended. That is who I want to be…
Right now, patience is my road. Maybe I know him already, maybe I don’t. Maybe he’s near, maybe he’s thousands of miles away. I’m not sitting on my hands and doing nothing, but I’m patiently striving to be the woman God has called me to be as an individual and as the woman who will love him.
Maybe patience and preparation go hand in hand. You can’t lazily wait for something, or it will crumble in your hands when you receive it. I want to be a good steward of the blessings God brings to me, and a man of God will hopefully be one of those things. Till then, I prepare. I am patient.